My Underlying Philosophy
Some beliefs we have, which block us from to having the loving, healthy relationship we desire, were picked up in childhood. As adults, we’re often unaware that those old ways of being are obsolete, and are obstructing our path to love now.
In working with you over 3 or 6 months, I’ll help you transform to attract the relationship you want. This process instills in you, at your core, that you deserve love, not crumbs, but the entire cake. Becoming aware of what beliefs are driving your behavior in relationships is step one.
Once you’re aware of that, you can no longer be as you were. That’s where relationship mastery begins when you have freedom to be in your value and embrace it. That’s a highly attractive quality.
After setting yourself up for success, new dating strategies will turn you into the CEO of your love life. This part is equally important. You cannot shift and transform, yet continue to date as you did before. Doing the powerful and necessary inner work sets a solid foundation for success when you learn valuable ways of dating that don’t waste months or years on a go-nowhere relationship with the wrong guy.
Hi, I'm Allison
When I decided I wanted a long-term, solidly loving relationship, I didn’t know how to make one last forever. I was so tired of hot and cold men who couldn’t go the distance. And, I realized I had some habitual behaviors that were getting in my way.
I learned how to choose a great partner, and how to turn a relationship into a lifelong, fulfilling partnership. Also, I learned how to communicate better, in a way that took care of my partner and me, too, so more relationally.
I continued along in my own relationship ‘lab,’ examining my early history, and evolving. I studied with some top relationship experts and therapists, in fact with one who all the rest have imitated! She’s now in her mid-80’s and retired, but her theories are gold for changing your love life quickly. I learned so much from her about what’s necessary to build the kind of relationship I longed for, one where my feelings are cherished.
Also, I studied hypnosis in 2018, to get to the root of whatever is blocking one much faster than in therapy. It’s my secret sauce. I use it to help you see your past differently to release any unhelpful patterns. It’s an invaluable resource.
I can do the same for you, saving you years of tears, recovery, and needing breaks from dating (when it’s a part of your life that you truly want).
I will help you understand how to find and keep the fulfilling relationship you want. No more winging it! You’ll have expert support and guidance.
Allison helped me realize my worth, this was huge. I never thought of myself as someone with low self-esteem, but my behavior showed something else. I somehow didn’t believe an amazing relationship was available to me… read more
I wanted to reach out to you because I have some good news. I remember when we were doing our session in 2020, you had stated at the end that you wish for me to be married in a couple of years and have a child… read more
Allison is a phenomenal therapist! I have been struggling with involuntary very negative, destructive thinking for most of my life. No matter what I did to try to get rid of them, nothing worked. I hated having those thoughts… read more
Allison helped me to get to memories & beliefs that I didn’t even know were there. She helped me access pain to let it out & no longer hold me in an old way of thinking. Our work together was surprising & liberating… read more
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We are almost a year later now, and I found an amazing partner. The work that Allison and I did together really helped me shift my beliefs. Right at the time that I was relaxed and not hoping to meet someone I met my love :))
I highly recommend teaming up with Allison if you are stuck in your relationship behavior and are ready to change this area of your life for real. She is understanding, smart and supportive and I love her honesty. Thank you very much, Allison!”
— Emanuelle Van Den Broek
I wanted to reach out to you because I have some good news. I remember when we were doing our session in 2020, you had stated at the end that you wish for me to be married in a couple of years and have a child. Well, I am happy to say that I am getting married next week and we are expecting.
I wanted to thank you for helping me get through my fear of men. I think it enabled me to find someone and settle down. I hope this email puts a smile on your face
— Safiya Bird
Allison is a phenomenal therapist! I have been struggling with involuntary very negative, destructive thinking for most of my life. No matter what I did to try to get rid of them, nothing worked. I hated having those thoughts as I know how much it interfered with the person I wanted to be and I also know thoughts are things.
These habits of thought definitely contributed to anxiety and just uneasiness about who I was. Allison’s RTT session found out the exact root cause of this issue and completely changed my beliefs around. As I listened to her recording, I noticed that I wasn’t thinking those thoughts anymore which caught me by surprise. I tried to think those thoughts intentionally and I couldn’t even do that!
It is truly amazing! I am a much happier person now and I can’t thank Allison enough for this! She has changed my life and gave me peace of mind that I’ve been seeking for a very long time.”
— Ara Ko
“Allison helped me to get to memories & beliefs that I didn’t even know were there. She helped me access pain to let it out & no longer hold me in an old way of thinking. Our work together was surprising & liberating. I loved the recording I got to use nightly to deepen our work. That was useful & a very soothing ritual before bed. I’d highly recommend her, especially if you feel stuck in some way & are open & ready to uncover the truth & feel more free.”
— Michaela Foulkes