Life & Relationship Coach + Hypnotist (RTT)
Transform Your Love Life
Coaching: Have the Love You Desire
Coaching is for you if you dream that love is possible, and know that you want a loving, committed partnership. It’s for you if you’ve had a series of dissatisfying relationships, yet desire one where you feel connected and seen, without repeating defeating patterns. It’s for you if you’re committed to getting into a relationship differently because what you’ve been doing so far hasn’t worked. It’s for you because it is possible to find a good man and have a life with a loving partner.
You can have the kind of relationship you’ve longed for, where you feel connected, cherished and loved. No more loving too much with heartbreaking results or pulling a man along who can’t be the partner you seek. I have a better plan for you, one where you will know how to proceed to have the love you desire.
What if you could possess the confidence to consistently pursue your dream, to keep yourself heading towards your goal without wobbling when life throws something your way? I can help you learn to view your thoughts as simply passing ideas, not as instructions, to get rid of angst and feel good, too.
Finding a Loving Relationship
If you’ve excitedly jumped into a relationship in the past that didn’t pan out, or left you suffering and taking a break from dating to recover, I have a better plan for you. One where you’ll know how to proceed to have the loving relationship you desire.
Staying in a Good Relationship
What’s needed to help your best ever relationship continue to thrive? A process to keep your partnership thriving and alive, while negotiating time, space, play and money, too. Seeing your partner as your friend and your lover, while continuing to live your life fully.
Leaving a Relationship
If your needs aren’t being met, communication is confusing, you’ve tried to “make it work” but it isn’t, you can’t imagine that you can have something better, if you’re simply incompatible, I can help you leave, and eventually move towards a fulfilling relationship. Fortune favors the bold.
Thriving in Your Life
Do you feel like you constantly have to prove your worth? When you’re coming from a place of value you relax into knowing that, not feeling you must prove it. I can help you see your past through a different lens so old stories don’t hold you back from where you want to be.
What Is Coaching?
Coaching is having an objective expert in your corner, focused on helping you to get what you want. A coach is an expert who holds your goal clearly with you and helps you achieve it, not by doing it for you, but by inspiring you and challenging you to take action. First we’ll talk about what you’re seeking, then strategize how you can get it. We both hold the belief that you want to realize your dream, but it’s up to you to take repeated action with my support.
What is Hypnosis?
Hypnosis allows you to step into a deeply relaxed state where you can objectively access past events which continue to influence how you live today, but are no longer serving you. My hypnosis practice is goal-driven, solely focused on what you want to change, allowing you to open up to take a new approach by seeing your past through a new lens. The process allows you to welcome change to get your desired outcome.
My Underlying Philosophy
Some beliefs we have, which block us from to having the loving, healthy relationship we desire, were picked up in childhood. As adults, we’re often unaware that those old ways of being are obsolete, and are obstructing our path to love now.
In working with you over 3 months, I’ll help you transform to attract the relationship you want. This process instills in you, at your core, that you deserve love, not crumbs, but the entire cake. Becoming aware of what beliefs are driving your behavior in relationships is step one.
Once you’re aware of that, you can no longer be as you were. That’s where relationship mastery begins when you have freedom to be in your value and embrace that. It’s a highly attractive quality.
After setting yourself up for success, new dating strategies will turn you into the CEO of your love life. This part is equally important. You cannot shift and transform, yet continue to date as you did before. Doing the powerful and necessary inner work sets a solid foundation for success when you learn valuable ways of dating that don’t waste months or years on a go-nowhere relationship with the wrong guy.
Hi, I'm Allison
When I decided I wanted a long-term, solidly loving relationship, I didn’t know how to make one last forever. I was so tired of hot and cold men who couldn’t go the distance.
I learned how to choose a great partner, and how to turn a relationship into a lifelong, fulfilling partnership. Also, I learned how to communicate better, in a way that took care of me and my partner, too.
I studied with some top relationship experts, in fact with one who all the rest have imitated! I learned so much from her about what’s necessary to build the kind of relationship I longed for, one where my feelings are cherished.
I can do the same for you, saving you years of tears and recovery. I will help you understand how to find that fulfilling relationship you want. No more winging it! You’ll have expert support and guidance.
Allison helped me realize my worth, this was huge. I never thought of myself as someone with low self-esteem, but my behavior showed something else. I somehow didn’t believe an amazing relationship was available to me… read more
I wanted to reach out to you because I have some good news. I remember when we were doing our session in 2020, you had stated at the end that you wish for me to be married in a couple of years and have a child… read more
Allison is a phenomenal therapist! I have been struggling with involuntary very negative, destructive thinking for most of my life. No matter what I did to try to get rid of them, nothing worked. I hated having those thoughts… read more
Allison helped me to get to memories & beliefs that I didn’t even know were there. She helped me access pain to let it out & no longer hold me in an old way of thinking. Our work together was surprising & liberating… read more
Books, Workshops, Articles, Events
My Weekly Relationship Roundtable
Safe Space for Women to Discuss Relationship Issues – a Weekly Online Event
The Breakthrough Dating Workshop
A 6-Week Online Workshop for Women for Increasing Your Success in Dating
"Relationship Matters" Newsletter
My Substack Blog discusses issues around dating and successful relationships
If you desire enduring love, this work is simple, yet surprisingly life changing.
Here Are 2 Ways You Can Work With Me:
- 1 Think Tank (or Pick My Brain) Session for 3 hours
- 2 RTT Sessions and 10 Weekly 1 Hour Coaching Sessions in 3 Months
I believe in inner work (clearing anything that is holding you back) + dating strategies for having the life-long relationship you desire. Win/Win 🙂
The Time Is Right Now. Let’s Talk.
We are almost a year later now, and I found an amazing partner. The work that Allison and I did together really helped me shift my beliefs. Right at the time that I was relaxed and not hoping to meet someone I met my love :))
I highly recommend teaming up with Allison if you are stuck in your relationship behavior and are ready to change this area of your life for real. She is understanding, smart and supportive and I love her honesty. Thank you very much, Allison!”
— Emanuelle Van Den Broek
I wanted to reach out to you because I have some good news. I remember when we were doing our session in 2020, you had stated at the end that you wish for me to be married in a couple of years and have a child. Well, I am happy to say that I am getting married next week and we are expecting.
I wanted to thank you for helping me get through my fear of men. I think it enabled me to find someone and settle down. I hope this email puts a smile on your face
— Safiya Bird
Allison is a phenomenal therapist! I have been struggling with involuntary very negative, destructive thinking for most of my life. No matter what I did to try to get rid of them, nothing worked. I hated having those thoughts as I know how much it interfered with the person I wanted to be and I also know thoughts are things.
These habits of thought definitely contributed to anxiety and just uneasiness about who I was. Allison’s RTT session found out the exact root cause of this issue and completely changed my beliefs around. As I listened to her recording, I noticed that I wasn’t thinking those thoughts anymore which caught me by surprise. I tried to think those thoughts intentionally and I couldn’t even do that!
It is truly amazing! I am a much happier person now and I can’t thank Allison enough for this! She has changed my life and gave me peace of mind that I’ve been seeking for a very long time.”
— Ara Ko
“Allison helped me to get to memories & beliefs that I didn’t even know were there. She helped me access pain to let it out & no longer hold me in an old way of thinking. Our work together was surprising & liberating. I loved the recording I got to use nightly to deepen our work. That was useful & a very soothing ritual before bed. I’d highly recommend her, especially if you feel stuck in some way & are open & ready to uncover the truth & feel more free.”
— Michaela Foulkes