Allison Evans
Coaching + Hypnosis
Live The Life You’ve Always Wanted
Create the Life You Desire
If you dream of a particular life, where you have a partnership you love, or work that’s fulfilling and financially gratifying, or where you aren’t carrying forward toxic behaviors your family of origin did and still does, etc., but what you’ve been doing so far hasn’t worked, it is possible to create a life you desire. But, first you’ll want to see yourself as the source of your experience. I’m here to support you in expediting what you do want.
Seeing yourself as the source of your experience may be difficult at first if you’ve been carrying around old stories/history from you childhood, maybe even unconsciously recreating those in your current life. That is very common. But, the only way to get free of the shadows from your past is to look directly at them, to see what you inherited and what you picked up – usually they aren’t even yours, but you’ve lived them so long that you think they are a part of you, when they often aren’t. Hypnosis is a wonderful tool to get to the root cause quickly as if looking through a screen to see what helped to form you.
What if you could possess the confidence to consistently pursue your dream, to keep yourself heading towards your goal without wobbling when life throws something your way? That could be more evidence of you keeping yourself in a story you’ve outgrown (it is familiar and known after all), but you don’t know how to put it behind you so you can focus on your present and future. I can help you learn to focus on what you want and where you’re going – not on where you’ve been.
Living the Life You Desire
This requires you knowing what you want. We can explore that or you can tell me what you want, and more importantly tell me why you think you don’t or can’t have it, so we can dismantle that old history, and build your present and future anew.
Overcoming Your Past
The key to living the life you want, to owning your value and power, is to look at any old history that you may still be steeped in, to understand where it came from and why – the why may have been to protect you or to keep you safe as a child when that was relevant in your childhood, but isn’t applicable in your adult life, yet you still may be living “as if” it is. Let’s change that, and break any invisible chains that are keeping you stuck.
Staying in a Good Relationship
What’s needed to help your best ever relationship continue to thrive? A process to keep your partnership thriving and alive, while negotiating time, space, play and money, too. Seeing your partner as your friend and your lover, while continuing to live your life fully.
Thriving in Your Life
Do you feel like you constantly have to prove your worth? When you’re coming from a place of value you relax into knowing that, not feeling you must prove it. I can help you see your past through a different lens so old stories don’t hold you back from where you want to be.
What Is Coaching?
Coaching is having an objective expert in your corner, focused on helping you to get what you want while helping you to see what you may not be able to on your own. A certified coach has learned the protocol to help acheive your goals + helps you by inspiring you and tasking you to take consistent action. First we’ll talk about what you’re seeking, then strategize how to get it. We both hold the belief that you want to realize your dream, knowing it’s up to you to take repeated action with my support and accountability every step.
What is Hypnosis?
Hypnosis allows you to step into a deeply relaxed state where you can objectively access past events which continue to influence how you live today, but are no longer serving you. My hypnosis practice is goal-driven, solely focused on what you want to change, allowing you to open up to take a new approach by seeing your past through a new lens. The process allows you to let go of behaviors that may have once served you, but no longer are, so you can reach your goals.
My Underlying Philosophy
Some beliefs we have, which block us from living the life we desire, were picked up in childhood. As adults, we’re often unaware that those old ways of being are obsolete, and are obstructing our path in life or love now.
In working with you over 3 months, I’ll help you transform to go after the life you want. This process instills in you, at your core, that you deserve the life you seek, not crumbs, but the entire cake. Becoming aware of what beliefs are driving your behavior is Step 1.
Once you’re aware of it, you can no longer be it. That’s where mastery begins – when you have freedom to be in your value and embrace it. Not only is it a highly attractive quality, but at its core it empowers you to go for it.
After setting yourself up for success, new strategies will turn you into the CEO of your life. This part is equally important. You start to view your life in a new way, more efficiently, and always as the main character. Doing the powerful and necessary inner work sets a solid foundation for success moving towards the life you want via tangible steps, including a date chosen for when you’ll achieve it. This isn’t a dream – putting a date to it drives you to make it a reality.
I'm Allison
I dealt with my own trauma, seeking a variety of ways to change my life along the way. I can help you, but much faster. You’ll benefit from all of my expertise, training, and wisdom focused on your goal.
Along the way, I realized I had some habitual behaviors that were getting in my way, ones I picked up in childhood to stay emotionally safe. For ex., I feared vulnerability, but being vulnerable is the only way to living an authentic life, to be known, and to rewarding intimacy, too.
I can save you years of tears and slumps when you lose your energy because the same story/ pattern in your life keeps repeating, but with different players, and you’re not sure why.
Back to me, I’m a lifelong learner, and a reader, too. I became a pro photographer after attending photo school, then got a BFA in photography, and began an MFA, too. I love photography still. It’s a good compliment to psychological interests because when photographing people one must learn how to help them relax so they can be their best, authentic self in photos.
I continued examining, learning, evolving. I studied with some top experts and therapists, famous and not so famous, keeping the best information to share, after road-testing it myself.
I sought hypnosis for sleep issues, understood it’s power, so got certified as a hypnotherapist in 2018. I loved the process when done on me. It’s a brilliant tool to get to the root of whatever is blocking one much faster than in therapy. It certainly helped me move past places where I’d been stuck too long.
It’s my secret sauce. I use it to help you see your past differently, to release any unhelpful patterns. It’s an invaluable resource, a gateway to help you live in the present and future, which is where life is happening.
Testimonials
Allison helped me realize my worth, this was huge. I never thought of myself as someone with low self-esteem, but my behavior showed something else. I somehow didn’t believe an amazing relationship was available to me… read more
I wanted to reach out to you because I have some good news. I remember when we were doing our session in 2020, you had stated at the end that you wish for me to be married in a couple of years and have a child… read more
Allison is a phenomenal therapist! I have been struggling with involuntary very negative, destructive thinking for most of my life. No matter what I did to try to get rid of them, nothing worked. I hated having those thoughts… read more
Allison helped me to get to memories & beliefs that I didn’t even know were there. She helped me access pain to let it out & no longer hold me in an old way of thinking. Our work together was surprising & liberating… read more
Additional Resources
Workshops, Articles
Find Your Original Fracture Story, a guided recording
Find Your Original Fracture story, so you can let it go to focus on the present and future. A free guided recording that helps you name your primary fracture story within 15 minutes.
Articles
Writings from my Newsletter
"Relationship Matters" Newsletter
My Substack writing discusses relationships – everything is a relationship of some kind – they matter significantly, whatever kind they are, especially the relationship with yourself.
If you desire a juicy, fufilling life, this work is simple, yet surprisingly life changing.
Here Are 2 Ways To Work With Me:
- 2 Two Hour Hypnosis Sessions Over 8 Weeks
- 1 Two Hour Hypnosis Session and 11 Weekly 50 Minute Coaching Sessions in 12 Weeks
(RTT, Rapid Transformational Therapy, is the hypnosis method which I’m certified in)
Coaching sessions include tasks toward reaching your goals, accountability for you to stay on track, and most importantly, your enthusiasm for the life you want.
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We are almost a year later now, and I found an amazing partner. The work that Allison and I did together really helped me shift my beliefs. Right at the time that I was relaxed and not hoping to meet someone I met my love :))
I highly recommend teaming up with Allison if you are stuck in your relationship behavior and are ready to change this area of your life for real. She is understanding, smart and supportive and I love her honesty. Thank you very much, Allison!”
— Emanuelle Van Den Broek
I wanted to reach out to you because I have some good news. I remember when we were doing our session in 2020, you had stated at the end that you wish for me to be married in a couple of years and have a child. Well, I am happy to say that I am getting married next week and we are expecting.
I wanted to thank you for helping me get through my fear of men. I think it enabled me to find someone and settle down. I hope this email puts a smile on your face
— Safiya Bird
Allison is a phenomenal therapist! I have been struggling with involuntary very negative, destructive thinking for most of my life. No matter what I did to try to get rid of them, nothing worked. I hated having those thoughts as I know how much it interfered with the person I wanted to be and I also know thoughts are things.
These habits of thought definitely contributed to anxiety and just uneasiness about who I was. Allison’s RTT session found out the exact root cause of this issue and completely changed my beliefs around. As I listened to her recording, I noticed that I wasn’t thinking those thoughts anymore which caught me by surprise. I tried to think those thoughts intentionally and I couldn’t even do that!
It is truly amazing! I am a much happier person now and I can’t thank Allison enough for this! She has changed my life and gave me peace of mind that I’ve been seeking for a very long time.”
— Ara Ko
“Allison helped me to get to memories & beliefs that I didn’t even know were there. She helped me access pain to let it out & no longer hold me in an old way of thinking. Our work together was surprising & liberating. I loved the recording I got to use nightly to deepen our work. That was useful & a very soothing ritual before bed. I’d highly recommend her, especially if you feel stuck in some way & are open & ready to uncover the truth & feel more free.”
— Michaela Foulkes