We are emotional beings so letting go of someone can be very hard. We hate to lose anything. Even weight, when framed as loss, we subconsciously dislike that! We want to win, not lose. It’s how we’re wired.
I spent 2 on/off years with G, which was a train to nowheresville. I ignored much of what I’m sharing and took precious time to recover while dating some other misaligned men.